Roses and lilies have been found to have a positive effect on both male and female
libido. Work
done by Helen Farmer-Knowles, a counsellor on natural remedies and cosmetics and
an aromatherapist, points to the beneficial effects of scented flowers - and particularly
roses and lilies (as these are the ones that have been investigated) to improve
our love life. Helen Farmer-Knowles tells us: Plants and
their flowers have been a part of human culture since Neanderthal times. Plant
life has nurtured and sustained us throughout millions of generations. The roots,
branches, leaves, flowers and seeds now found in the garden were our food and
medicines. Their medicinal properties were important, because the first basic
prerequisite of 'good sex' is 'robust health', sexual prowess depends upon it.
But flowers and plants offer much more. They regale the senses of sight,
touch, sound and particularly smell. Their colour, form, texture and fragrance
have long given mental stimulus to love-making both the thought and the
deed - for the romantic and poetic soul. Flowers, particularly scented
ones, can aid sensuality and alleviate stress. The texture of rose petals is sensuous
and silken to the touch. Not only are the senses of sight and touch stimulated
by the rose, but its fragrance hides a scientific secret that aids 'falling in
love'. PEA, phenylethylamine, is a substance found in fresh roses, which helps
give them their distinctive scent. PEA contains an amino acid known to slow the
breakdown of beta-endorphins. Beta-endorphins are "happy hormones",
which give us a high and the euphoria of being in love. PEA is also present in
chocolate. A suitor who comes bearing a bunch of red roses and a box of chocolates
has long been seen as a romantic. We are just beginning to understand why. The
effect of PEA has been described as a mood-altering chemical that is able to prolong
feelings of sensuality. Life's simple pleasures, such as
savouring the fragrance of a favourite flower, have a measurable affect upon mood
in relation to the immune system. A good mood and good health boost our immunity,
and are necessary to well-being and a healthy sex life. Scented association of
ideas, scented memories of a past pleasurable incident or event, can also trigger
the mental perception into a sexual response. Some romantics, men or women,
may prefer clear scents, such as spring flowers like sweet violets (so dear to
French Latin lovers, especially Napoleon and his Josephine), or lily-of-the-valley.
Others may have more exotic tastes in natural flower perfumes and respond well
to the deep aroma of tuberose, erotic jasmine, or narcotic narcissus. The
lily may be traditionally association with purity and the Virgin Mary as
the Madonna lily suggests - but lilies have a particularly strong feminine appeal.
Perhaps their ancient use as a warming and mollifying scented ointment to treat
'female' complaints, remains in our unconscious collective memory. In modern times
the ancient 'Oil of Lilies', that took at least 2,000 stems to make, is no longer
within our grasp. However, to lull and relax lovers, a bedside bowl of heavily
scented lilies, redolent of the orient can work wonders on sexuality. The scent
is very calming, and a relaxed attitude is important to successful sex. Libido,
the intensity of sexual desire, can be increased by floral aids to arousal. For
example, tobacco flowers (Nicotiana) or romantic gardenia, with their sensual
aromas, a heady hyacinth plant, or a vase of luxurious cut flowers, can help pave
the way to sensuous and sensitive 'love-making'. In our high-tech busy
stressful world, the power of flowers, and their sexual appeal to our senses,
should never be underestimated or forgotten.
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